"Don't feed the trolls". I get told this a lot. Don't argue with trolls, Kitty, don't keep fighting with… View More

Introduction: Safe/Ward is getting to be rather a massive project, with a lot of posts, so if you're so inclined, please check out the other posts in the series: -I Never… View More

So after a discussion on Twitter between Consent Culture activist Maggie and a guy who goes by @crash_restraint, wherein he ended up harassing Maggie about consent culture and what we… View More

So I haven't updated for a couple of weeks, in part because I've been really busy planning for upcoming… View More

Every year there's an event called the Erotic Awards that happens in the UK, and every year they take nominations. It's a great way to signal boost an… View More

So today my grandmother sat me down, looked deep into my eyes and told me I was disgusting. Disappointing. That she had seen my photos and I was a horrible person with no self-esteem. She Googled my name. Apparently she also shared my sex work name with one of her friends at her local community center, who said she was going to look me up. So she has also outed me to at least one, possibly more people. This of course puts me in… View More

Greta Christina posted an invitation for sex worker voices to be… View More

Crossposted on Fetlife and Consent… View More

Kink.com has built a reputation for being an ethical porn site who puts the models first and is great to work for. Many a battle against pornography, particularly BDSM pornography, has been fought and won because of their model policies, which set a high standard for how porn can be filmed. I personally struggled with that idea of "ethics" due to some of their policies about who they hire, the whole "virginity" debacle, and their depictions… View More

So last year I presented "En/Forced Femme- Sex Workers and Social Media" at SXSW, and it was really a big step for me as a presenter and as someone moving into the social media field. I knew I wanted to go again, so I created two presentations this year, and I'd love to get your help voting them up! Voting is open from August 13-August 31st, so please signal boost, blog, write articles, anything you can do to help us… View More