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apartment hell

I'm trying for find a flat for 3 months, November to February. I'd like it to be in zone 1-3. Double bed. Easy access to tube, or at least buses to central London. Warmish. Mixed gender or male. Under 600 quid a month, bills included. But this appears to be really difficult. :/ I'm getting concerned I won't be able to find a place, which would be a real problem. I mean, I need to have this sorted soonish! I guess it's a… View More

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what IS safe anyway

Miss Calico has posted something about the risk factor of sex work. She says, "But I have always felt vulnerable to violence and rape, whether or not I chose to charge money or be sexual. If sex work is a place of additional danger, I believe we live in a world that is ready to learn new attitudes — and oh, I want to dictate… View More

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exit, stage left

Today's metaphor: plugging something into a socket. You try it once, twice, three times, and it's unresponsive. Maybe it works, once, to give you hope, then not again. Then, you plug something in, cause, well, maybe this time it'll work, and it sparks and blows out the whole circuit. That was my night last night in S's flat, which I feel horribly guilty about, though a phone call from Mo (helpfully brought about by J) reassured me that… View More

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geeks need love and sex too

I'm watching "Eyes Wide Shut" for the first time. I have no idea if I'll finish it, as it seems long and I find Tom Cruise incredibly creepy.Not terribly impressed so far, but eh, we'll see. It seems like one of those movies you have to watch if you watch sexuality-related films. While so far it seems sorta meh, I do like Nicole Kidman naked except for glasses. Anyway. I spent the afternoon having a picnic outside with my… View More

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oh for fuck's sake

I have a lot of patience. I've laughed when people have said I have the patience of a saint, but I will generally take a lot of bullshit in stride. It's taken me a long… View More

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"sometimes I feel like a whore"

I woke up today and my facebook tarot card was Death. I know, I know, Death, not the scary card, not really (and thank god it wasn't the Tower, right?) but just a symbol of change, of things rebirthing, newness, new directions, the death of that which is now gone and the birth of something new. (Actually, typing that out, I mistyped "birth" to make that sentence "the… View More

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the scarlet pound sign

I'm on this kinky forum type thing. There's a mixture of people there, some professional, some not, and a few people have profiles that link their personal profile to the professional one, so they can maintain a personal account. I was told by the admin, after 5 years of being on the site, that because my personal profile links to this blog, which then, on the side, links to my professional page, I had to indicate on my personal… View More

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"Guilt is the gift that keeps on giving." -Erma Bombeck (triggers within)

So it seems we haven't gotten over the happyfuntime that is blaming the victim, according to… View More

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mpreg: or, why can't my boyfriend be the keyholder of pregnancy?

Mpreg. Short for male impregnation, sometimes seen in the news or in sci-fi fantasy but more often seen in… View More

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green in every sense

Well, incredibly quickly- I won my erotic award for Ladies High Tea and Pornography Society. :) I'm very pleased about it, and hope to get back into it soon. I miss having a space for women to enjoy porn without it being a sexual environment. Anyway. That's not ultimately what I wanted to blog about. I have a couple rolling around in my brain, but, first things first. My boypup is going on a play date with someone tomorrow- the… View More