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problems I have with Gor

I've always struggled to respect Goreans as a variation of BDSM. I have multiple problems with it. -There's an implication that this is how the world "really" is, and if we all just stopped with the pretense and got down to it, we'd "know better". Uh huh.-Also, it doesn't help that most of the people interested are men- men who still haven't gotten rolling for stats, if you know… View More

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under pressure

"It's easier to beg forgiveness than to ask permission". Is this true? Is this the way I've been operating? I wonder sometimes if I'm so interested in taking care of my needs and getting what I want that I steamroll over others. Actually, I don't wonder- I know it happens. I'm very sure of myself and what I want, and I think people cave. I mean, I can be very persuasive when there's something I want, and... well, as one of my sweeties… View More

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"Schrödinger’s Rapist"

"When you approach me in public, you are Schrödinger’s Rapist. You may or may not be a man who would commit… View More

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loving with the hands wide fucking open goddamnit if it kills me

Well, as per usual, it's been a while since I've blogged, and I'll be posting a few blog entries today to make up for lost time. The events… View More

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Cheating and the Ethical Sex Worker

I was asked on that lovely site formspring this question, which I get asked fairly… View More

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green in every sense

Well, incredibly quickly- I won my erotic award for Ladies High Tea and Pornography Society. :) I'm very pleased about it, and hope to get back into it soon. I miss having a space for women to enjoy porn without it being a sexual environment. Anyway. That's not ultimately what I wanted to blog about. I have a couple rolling around in my brain, but, first things first. My boypup is going on a play date with someone tomorrow- the… View More

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Sex Workin' Sweetheart- or, yes, we have relationships

“So what do… View More

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family matters

A friend of mine just posted about how, when you get to your mid-twenties or so, parents feel carte blanche to talk about or joke about their sexual proclivities, and how it's TMI and usually super uncomfortable. To each their own, certainly, but I must say that I am glad and thankful each and every day that my family is open to discussing sexuality,… View More

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Sex Positive? Not if Your Test Results are Positive.

"Sex positive community"? I'm calling you out. Something that has always bothered me is how the "sex positive community" has responded to… View More

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boundaries are boundaries for a reason

So after being really uncomfortable about last… View More