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A Little Exhausted: Self-Care Struggles

So I haven't updated for a couple of weeks, in part because I've been really busy planning for upcoming… View More

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All the Fucks

I want to give you an idea of the sort… View More

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Stage 4: Grief

"Forgiveness is giving up all hope of having a better past" - Lily Tomlin   I masturbated for the first time since you left me.   just letting my mind wash over thoughts of letting… View More

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Spanksgiving! And a lot of serious stuff too.

Trigger warning: Abuse, mention of roots of Thanksgiving I tend to be fairly good at finding things to be grateful for every day, so in some… View More

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Stage 5: Acceptance

Trigger Warning: This discusses abuse, why someone would stay in an abusive situation, self-blame, loss of friends. It's part of a series about losing… View More

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Sticky Floors, Bloody Marys, and Casual Encounters

So there's a club in San Francisco I have always had a soft spot for. It was dark, and a bit grungy, and the floor always felt stickier than it should beneath my heels. There… View More

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Why Being Angry Matters

  So. So I've been quiet for 10 months about naming my abusive ex (Michael… View More

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"Community"- and I don't mean the TV show

Just in case I was feeling overly confident about where I stand in the BDSM "community", I found myself on the receiving end of event expulsion thanks to… View More

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How Politics Got Me Laid: or, my first experience with PIV

I lost my virginity during an argument about socialism. I was always a pretentious kid, so in a way the fact that a political argument got me heated in more ways than one wasn’t surprising. And the… View More

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Queer Key Party: The Dream is Born

If you're even vaguely following my social media, you may have figured out that I have become obsessed with the Seventies. Specifically, I'm obsessed with throwing a swingers… View More