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I don't sit around in lacey lingerie waiting for you.

I know that the fantasy is that I sit around my gorgeously appointed flat, floggers and sex toys all around me, my face made up and my curvy body neatly and beautifully wrapped in matching lingerie, schoolgirl clothes, Mistress corsets, etc. I know you imagine me with my legs in stockings and high heels, just lounging about reading smut. In reality, I'm picking cat hair off my robe and running my fingers through my hair, trying to… View More

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loving with the hands wide fucking open goddamnit if it kills me

Well, as per usual, it's been a while since I've blogged, and I'll be posting a few blog entries today to make up for lost time. The events… View More

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declaration of interdependence..?

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monogamous, a mentalist, or making sense?

I have spent a lot of my adult like identifying as polyamorous. I've amended that over the last year to say "yes, well, or at least nonmonogamous". But I've always had something that got in my way- first it was "but I can't find a partner willing to commit as a primary, boohoo", then it was… View More

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family matters

A friend of mine just posted about how, when you get to your mid-twenties or so, parents feel carte blanche to talk about or joke about their sexual proclivities, and how it's TMI and usually super uncomfortable. To each their own, certainly, but I must say that I am glad and thankful each and every day that my family is open to discussing sexuality,… View More

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Making the Beast With Two Backs with the Black Dog

I'm quite possibly crazy. It's been suggested I have lots of things-… View More

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your fetish is not that weird.

Almost every time I see a client who is into kink, they immediately begin the session with an apology. "I know this must seem weird..." "It's ok if you're not into… View More

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Fuck Me, I’m Fat: A Hot Guide to Fat Sex

Article Originally Published 2011, Freshened Up With New Products and New… View More

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Safe/Ward: A "What You Can Do" Guide for Community Leaders

The Consent Culture Logo, by Tom… View More

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Sex? It's Not Like Pizza.

You know that phrase "sex is like pizza, even bad pizza is pizza"? It's not true. Sorry. Or if you think it is, you need to remember that sometimes… View More