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Coffee, Cake, Kink & Kitty!

Coffee Cake and Kink was the first kinky space I felt really comfortable in, probably because it wasn't a fetish club or a munch, but rather just a space where I could talk freely and know I was among fellow perverts like myself. It also made me really happy that it was so central, and that it was respectable enough to bring vanilla friends while also being a non-alcoholic place to meet up with a potential play… View More

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Red Umbrella Blog Carnival: Call for Bloggers

So earlier this year I curated the… View More

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unpopular

I have never really considered myself as part of the in-crowd. I've always had a wide circle… View More

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Safe/Ward: I never called it rape.

(Note: while I'm speaking here about M/f situations, as that's where I was at the time, that's not at all to say that men or Dominant women don't also suffer sexual and domestic violence along with victim silencing in… View More

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Guest Post: Sex-Negative Actions in Sex-Positive Communities

The Consent Culture Logo,by Tom Ker-Oldfield Introduction: Safe/Ward is… View More

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Give Charity With Clarity

It's incredibly important to give year round, since people don't JUST… View More

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Identity Crisis

This last week, I had a meltdown. The Boy and I almost broke up (twice), communication seemed to be at a standstill, everything was just Too Much. I cracked, and… View More

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Spanksgiving! And a lot of serious stuff too.

Trigger warning: Abuse, mention of roots of Thanksgiving I tend to be fairly good at finding things to be grateful for every day, so in some… View More

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Our Attraction/Disgust Reaction to Manic Pixies

I've been turning this over in my head for a while, so these are just some thoughts, really, but with "why you need to date a crazy girl" going Kinky & Popular on Fetlife, and as a woman who thought being… View More

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Stage 5: Acceptance

Trigger Warning: This discusses abuse, why someone would stay in an abusive situation, self-blame, loss of friends. It's part of a series about losing… View More