Category / nonmonogamy

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To Have Without Holding

To Have Without HoldingMarge Piercy Learning to love differently is hard,love with the hands wide open, lovewith the doors banging on their hinges,the cupboard unlocked, the windroaring and whimpering in the roomsrustling the sheets and snapping the blindsthat thwack like rubber bandsin an open palm. It hurts to love wide openstretching the muscles that feelas if they… View More

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loving with the hands wide fucking open goddamnit if it kills me

Well, as per usual, it's been a while since I've blogged, and I'll be posting a few blog entries today to make up for lost time. The events… View More

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Cheating and the Ethical Sex Worker

I was asked on that lovely site formspring this question, which I get asked fairly… View More

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monogamous, a mentalist, or making sense?

I have spent a lot of my adult like identifying as polyamorous. I've amended that over the last year to say "yes, well, or at least nonmonogamous". But I've always had something that got in my way- first it was "but I can't find a partner willing to commit as a primary, boohoo", then it was… View More

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Sex Workin' Sweetheart- or, yes, we have relationships

“So what do… View More

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little girl found

I'm not sure where my desire to be the boy's little girl came from. It definitely sideswiped me. I had defended adult babies against judgmental sex workers online before, but didn't feel any connection to them- I always said I got to act like a kid often, in the Bay Area's whirl of costumes and parties, so why wear a romper suit? And as for the other side,… View More

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dysfunctional

My fingertips, almost every single one, are either bleeding or have scabs. I have been so anxious for the last week that I've had to repaint my nails 4 times, and try as I might to keep myself from biting my cuticles, it hasn't… View More

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polyamouraint

I've had a long struggle with polyamory. I love the idea of it. I want to be up for it. I've done it, happily, before, but never as the primary. I was always Girl #2, the unicorn in the closet for when a couple wanted sexyfuntimes. And it wasn't a bad… View More

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boundaries are boundaries for a reason

So after being really uncomfortable about last… View More

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what Toy Story taught me about nonmonogamy

In need of some chill out time, I ordered delivery and sat at home in my PJs watching movies. As it turns out, Toy Story and Toy Story 2 was playing on TV, and I was sitting at home, eating sushi and feeling Pixar tug at my heartstrings as it generally does... when I realize that there's an undercurrent going on in… View More