Category / male privilege

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Why Working Hard for Privilege Doesn't Negate That Privilege.

So there's an article about how being thin isn't a… View More

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Candid Pornography

(Update: Desiscandids is no longer live on Tumblr, and the blog is against the blogger content policy- they forbid blogs that only exist to make money off adult content...… View More

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A Switchblade In my Sleeve: Why I Talk Back

"Don't feed the trolls". I get told this a lot. Don't argue with trolls, Kitty, don't keep fighting with… View More

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fuck this scarlet letter bullshit part 4: The Internet as the New Pillory

Part of a series discussing mostly whorephobia but also slut-shaming generally: Part… View More

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Candid Pornography: an Update

Desi, from my Candid Pornography post, has… View More

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"Lynching Rapists", or, How Not to Be An Ally

So after a discussion on Twitter between Consent Culture activist Maggie and a guy who goes by @crash_restraint, wherein he ended up harassing Maggie about consent culture and what we… View More

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Manic Pixie Dream Domme: Adorable Nightmare

I am the Manic Pixie Dream Domme. Bring to me your grey, wistful, dreary life, seeking some sense of… View More

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Our Attraction/Disgust Reaction to Manic Pixies

I've been turning this over in my head for a while, so these are just some thoughts, really, but with "why you need to date a crazy girl" going Kinky & Popular on Fetlife, and as a woman who thought being… View More

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Stage 5: Acceptance

Trigger Warning: This discusses abuse, why someone would stay in an abusive situation, self-blame, loss of friends. It's part of a series about losing… View More

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What I Mean When I Say I'm Sex Critical

So, I saw on Tumblr this awesome post by Pervocracy about what sex positive means to them. I really love and agree with their post, and it made me consider my critique of "sex positive" as a catch-all term and why I tend to not identify with it generally (though probably would if Pervocracy's definition was more widespread). I'm also… View More