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Safe/Ward: I never called it rape.

(Note: while I'm speaking here about M/f situations, as that's where I was at the time, that's not at all to say that men or Dominant women don't also suffer sexual and domestic violence along with victim silencing in… View More

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Safe/Ward Blog Carnival (trigger warning)

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Safe/Ward: This is Why I Speak Up (trigger warning)

I've been writing about abuse in kink, and how sometimes we in the kinky community make abusive behaviors and people not only… View More

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Guest Post: Sex-Negative Actions in Sex-Positive Communities

The Consent Culture Logo,by Tom Ker-Oldfield Introduction: Safe/Ward is… View More

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Safe/Ward: Boston notes

So while I was ramping up to visit my parents and boy in Massachusetts, I got an email from a member of the… View More

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The Road to Shameless: This Tuesday

So with all the various things going on around abuse, survivors and giving people a voice, I wanted to give a shout out to Bawdy Storytelling and Stories 2 Stop Rape as… View More

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A Little Exhausted: Self-Care Struggles

So I haven't updated for a couple of weeks, in part because I've been really busy planning for upcoming… View More

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Consent Culture: Let’s Review

Crossposted on Fetlife and Consent… View More

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All the Fucks

I want to give you an idea of the sort… View More

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Stage 4: Grief

"Forgiveness is giving up all hope of having a better past" - Lily Tomlin   I masturbated for the first time since you left me.   just letting my mind wash over thoughts of letting… View More