Crossposted from Consent Culture to try to relieve the traffic! *** Elliot… View More

I woke up yesterday morning to my Twitter in an uproar. That’s reasonably common in my world, as many of the people I follow are marginalized and there’s a lot to be angry about. Turns out that the… View More

I've been seeing a lot of frustration and anger about the 50 Shades of Grey trailer that went up at some point in the last... week, I guess? I don't know. I haven't watched it and I'm not interested. I already… View More

Massive trigger warnings about domestic violence (described and photographed), rape, rape apologism, entitlement culture, police I've written before on crowdfunding's betrayal of sex workers, and how ridiculous their rules are that they ban sex workers… View More

Notably, when I wrote this, I was booted. Because I know the occasional person in FB's walled garden, I occasionally wriggle… View More

So I did a SurveyMonkey to see what people wanted to hear more about from me. It appears porn politics is high up there, so I figured what… View More

Crossposted on Medium Trigger warnings: abuse, rape, violent fantasies, suicide, racism, transmisogyny,… View More

I always thought that the way in which my muscles spend more time tense than relaxed was normal. I figured waking up in the middle of the night because… View More

Content warning: frank discussion of abuse, discussion of kink as a healing response to abuse There was a time when I would count my bruises to figure out how bad… View More

Piggy and Kermit were a huge part of my childhood. From "Muppet Babies" to the Muppet Show, they were one of televisions big couples that I… View More