I had expected that going to London was going to be somewhat difficult. It had been years since I last visited, after all, and when I… View More

  So. So I've been quiet for 10 months about naming my abusive ex (Michael… View More

"Man Will Pay Good Money for Thin, White Girlfriend" headlines stated when they were being kind(ish), while other news outlets dubbed him "the worst person in the world" and "a… View More

originally posted here I often identify myself, with some pleasure,… View More

When I was working as a Domme, I got a fair number of requests from men who want to be “sissified”, “forced” into frilly girly undies and makeup and turned into an “objectified slut”. Sissification is one of those things I encounter… View More

Crossposted from Consent Culture to try to relieve the traffic! *** Elliot… View More

I've been sitting on this post for a little while as I sorted through… View More

I'm going to be brief. I don't know if you can make truly feminist porn marketable to the capitalist patriarchy. In many ways I think these goals are contradictory, and I think one of the… View More

When I was a teenager, into my early twenties, most of my friends were boys. I dismissed or stifled socially coded feminine interests… View More

There are only a handful of things I like to be playfully competitive about. The occasional Scrabble game. Costuming for an… View More