If you're even vaguely following my social media, you may have figured out that I have become obsessed with the Seventies. Specifically, I'm obsessed with throwing a swingers… View More

'Man goes to doctor. Says he's depressed. Says life is harsh and cruel. Says he feels all alone in a threatening world. Doctor says, "Treatment is simple. The great clown Pagliacci is in town tonight. Go see him. That should pick you up." Man bursts into tears.… View More

Notably, when I wrote this, I was booted. Because I know the occasional person in FB's walled garden, I occasionally wriggle… View More

I remember the first time I went to Folsom Street Fair. I volunteered with the Center For Sex and Culture, bright eyed newbie wanting to help out her community. I ended up on a bicycle, pedaling to power the fucking machine that was… View More

2014 was, for me, mainly a year of writing about sex workers and business resource access. While only two of those posts were big on my blog,… View More

When I was a teenager, I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. In order to combat depression and take some of the energy out of my mania, over the years I learned the coping… View More

All photos from my scenes in "Ban This Sick Filth", a collaboration between Courtney Trouble,… View More

So for my 31st birthday I decided I wanted to set up a queer key party. I spent months… View More

CW: suicidality, mental health struggles, the questionable community vs who shows up, isolation,… View More

Trigger Warning- frank discussion of suicide When a well-known porn star direct messaged me and tenderly asked if there was anything she could do to help with my struggles, and if it would be ok to signal boost… View More