I wrote earlier on issues around payment processors and the sex industry, how businesses like… View More

First, a little bit about me. I'm an American who has lived on one coast or the other, who has spent extended time in… View More

Being a sex worker often means that a dehabilitating illness can put you out of operation for an unknown amount of time. This loss of stability can… View More

Note: I talk in here about HIV/AIDs as it pertains mostly to white gay men, and white straight people. There's a lot more to be said on the topic of STIs pertaining to people of colour, particularly African… View More

I can appreciate as much as the next person how awesome it would be to see more safer sex in porn. I think it's… View More

Every summer is a constant battle between wanting to feel comfortable in the clothes I'm wearing and not die… View More

UPDATE: We do have a new campaign set… View More

Trigger warning: frank discussion of suicide Ok. I've been sitting on these feelings for a long time, and some of my dear readers have probably heard me rant about this in person, but I have a bone to pick with some… View More

Crossposted from Consent Culture to try to relieve the traffic! *** Elliot… View More

Yesterday I got tested at Planned Parenthood for STIs - I had a condom break and better safe than sorry. All in all it was a positive experience, and I'm glad to have a… View More