So I haven't updated for a couple of weeks, in part because I've been really busy planning for upcoming… View More

Crossposted on Fetlife and Consent… View More

I want to give you an idea of the sort… View More

"Forgiveness is giving up all hope of having a better past" - Lily Tomlin   I masturbated for the first time since you left me.   just letting my mind wash over thoughts of letting… View More

So Clarisse Thorn suggested that I do this… View More

Trigger warning: Abuse, mention of roots of Thanksgiving I tend to be fairly good at finding things to be grateful for every day, so in some… View More

Trigger Warning: This discusses abuse, why someone would stay in an abusive situation, self-blame, loss of friends. It's part of a series about losing… View More

  So. So I've been quiet for 10 months about naming my abusive ex (Michael… View More

Just in case I was feeling overly confident about where I stand in the BDSM "community", I found myself on the receiving end of event expulsion thanks to… View More

Edited to add: I've now been blocked from sending private messages. Facebook meanwhile has not responded to numerous complaints and reports. Edited to add: this person is STILL being allowed to harass me via Facebook, while anything I have written about it has been flagged and I've been banned whether I name her or not. I am also not allowed to BLOCK her. Despite the fact this is… View More