Holidays are for being with loved ones, at least that's what the songs and the movies seem to suggest. I love Christmas, almost ridiculously… View More

I didn't really write a list of resolutions as such last year, choosing instead… View More

So for my 31st birthday I decided I wanted to set up a queer key party. I spent months… View More

I dislike commercialism and sentimentality quite a bit. I am known to send texts like "You're so cute, I… View More

The hitachi hummed as I scrunched my eyes shut, lying on the padded bench and steadying my breath. Even with my eyes closed I could see the glare of the… View More

I always thought that the way in which my muscles spend more time tense than relaxed was normal. I figured waking up in the middle of the night because… View More

Wow. I'm listening to 90s music (currently "Fade Into You" by Mazzy Star) and going through my livejournal while piecing together a confessional entry on threesomes. Having had an amazing one this last weekend (which you'll hear more about… View More

"She said I don't know if I've ever been good enoughI'm a little bit rustyAnd I think my head is caving inAnd I don't know if I've ever been… View More

I'm not exactly new to the world of internet dating or casual sex hookups. I'm on OKCupid. I've been on PlentyofFish, and Match, and Alt, and all the rest of them.… View More

With this post, I am founding a new category- it's the poly PTSD category, yessir! Because I have a lot of trigger points around poly and it seems like when I talk about it on social media, many… View More