So, I saw on Tumblr this awesome post by Pervocracy about what sex positive means to them. I really love and agree with their post, and it made me consider my critique of "sex positive" as a catch-all term and why I tend to not identify with it generally (though probably would if Pervocracy's definition was more widespread). I'm also… View More

Denali Winter, the brains behind Petplay Palace, a new local petplay website, posted on their social media last night that their hope to shoot some hot… View More

When you look up "depression" on Google images you get a lot of beautiful young white slender cis people crouching,… View More

Notably, when I wrote this, I was booted. Because I know the occasional person in FB's walled garden, I occasionally wriggle… View More

When I was a teenager, I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. In order to combat depression and take some of the energy out of my mania, over the years I learned the coping… View More

CW: suicidality, mental health struggles, the questionable community vs who shows up, isolation,… View More

Trigger Warning- frank discussion of suicide When a well-known porn star direct messaged me and tenderly asked if there was anything she could do to help with my struggles, and if it would be ok to signal boost… View More

I just read a piece by… View More

“I feel like you want to be seen with me at parties because I increase your sexual capital”. He said it without any hint of irony or self awareness. My ex lover looked… View More

We need to talk about the ever increasing number of men like James Deen who utilize feminism as a marketable identity to cover up their abusive… View More