"Don't feed the trolls". I get told this a lot. Don't argue with trolls, Kitty, don't keep fighting with… View More

Part of a series discussing mostly whorephobia but also slut-shaming generally: Part… View More

Greta Christina posted an invitation for sex worker voices to be… View More

Kink.com has built a reputation for being an ethical porn site who puts the models first and is great to work for. Many a battle against pornography, particularly BDSM pornography, has been fought and won because of their model policies, which set a high standard for how porn can be filmed. I personally struggled with that idea of "ethics" due to some of their policies about who they hire, the whole "virginity" debacle, and their depictions… View More

This last week, I had a meltdown. The Boy and I almost broke up (twice), communication seemed to be at a standstill, everything was just Too Much. I cracked, and… View More

Today is International Sex Worker Rights Day. To honour it, give sex workers the… View More

I was asked to do a debate with a (thankfully polite and sensible) radical feminist about ethical pornography- could it exist, and what would that look… View More

I had to think for a hot second about whether it made sense for me to write about the topic or porn stars escorting and… View More

When I was working as a Domme, I got a fair number of requests from men who want to be “sissified”, “forced” into frilly girly undies and makeup and turned into an “objectified slut”. Sissification is one of those things I encounter… View More

"In a sluggish economy, never, ever f*** with another man's livelihood." - Risky Business As a sex worker, I hear "why don't you leave the industry?" all the time.… View More