Introduction: Safe/Ward is getting to be rather a massive project, with a lot of posts, so if you're so inclined, please check out the other posts in the series: -I Never… View More

There is a brilliant article up… View More

So I haven't updated for a couple of weeks, in part because I've been really busy planning for upcoming… View More

This last week, I had a meltdown. The Boy and I almost broke up (twice), communication seemed to be at a standstill, everything was just Too Much. I cracked, and… View More

So, I saw on Tumblr this awesome post by Pervocracy about what sex positive means to them. I really love and agree with their post, and it made me consider my critique of "sex positive" as a catch-all term and why I tend to not identify with it generally (though probably would if Pervocracy's definition was more widespread). I'm also… View More

"Adverts for their products appeared next to a group captioned “I like her for her brains” below a woman lying with a pool of blood around her head, and another titled “Violently Raping Your Friend Just for Laughs”."  -Pinterest: nudity welcome, Matt… View More

When I was working as a Domme, I got a fair number of requests from men who want to be “sissified”, “forced” into frilly girly undies and makeup and turned into an “objectified slut”. Sissification is one of those things I encounter… View More

Crossposted from Consent Culture to try to relieve the traffic! *** Elliot… View More

Massive trigger warnings about domestic violence (described and photographed), rape, rape apologism, entitlement culture, police I've written before on crowdfunding's betrayal of sex workers, and how ridiculous their rules are that they ban sex workers… View More

I've been sitting on this post for a little while as I sorted through… View More