So there's a club in San Francisco I have always had a soft spot for. It was dark, and a bit grungy, and the floor always felt stickier than it should beneath my heels. There… View More

I know, I know, right, I talk about Orgy and Wallflowers and no doubt you think "bands of the 90's". And while I did wear a short floral dress and docs, I'm… View More

If you're even vaguely following my social media, you may have figured out that I have become obsessed with the Seventies. Specifically, I'm obsessed with throwing a swingers… View More

I thoroughly enjoy going to group sex events, and have ever since I was an 18 year old baby queer. I started with kink community events in a private dungeon in Boston, then costumed house… View More

I've not always felt particularly positively about polyamory. In fact, I've been… View More

I'm not really a video game person, it's true. I think I had a Super Nintendo as a kid, but my cats ate the cord. So, computers it was. I used to sit at my desk playing… View More

Holidays are for being with loved ones, at least that's what the songs and the movies seem to suggest. I love Christmas, almost ridiculously… View More

I didn't really write a list of resolutions as such last year, choosing instead… View More

It's December 28th, which means that Christmas is over and I have survived it yet… View More

I always thought that the way in which my muscles spend more time tense than relaxed was normal. I figured waking up in the middle of the night because… View More