“When you have nobody you can make a cup of tea for, when nobody needs you, that's when I think life is… View More

This last week, I had a meltdown. The Boy and I almost broke up (twice), communication seemed to be at a standstill, everything was just Too Much. I cracked, and… View More

I am the Manic Pixie Dream Domme. Bring to me your grey, wistful, dreary life, seeking some sense of… View More

New Years Resolutions are one of those things that I have tended to do for years and years. It's interesting when you write down your resolutions online, because you can go back through the… View More

I've just come home from an intense 6 day trip in Toronto, home of the… View More

I'm preparing for a cocktail party slash games night slash possible orgy, as you do, thumbing through cocktail recipes and appetizers to find things that don't sound… View More

Holidays are for being with loved ones, at least that's what the songs and the movies seem to suggest. I love Christmas, almost ridiculously… View More

I dislike commercialism and sentimentality quite a bit. I am known to send texts like "You're so cute, I… View More

When I was a teenager, into my early twenties, most of my friends were boys. I dismissed or stifled socially coded feminine interests… View More

I'm not exactly new to the world of internet dating or casual sex hookups. I'm on OKCupid. I've been on PlentyofFish, and Match, and Alt, and all the rest of them.… View More