I woke up yesterday morning to my Twitter in an uproar. That’s reasonably common in my world, as many of the people I follow are marginalized and there’s a lot to be angry about. Turns out that the… View More

“There are two kinds of evil people in this world. Those who do evil stuff and those who see evil stuff being done and don't try to stop it.” -Janis Ian Judging from the popularity of using femme-on-femme makeouts to sell products… View More

So I'm on this secret dating group, and it's where I go to gave femme talk about my lovers, as well as live vicariously through other women and hear about… View More

I took one look at the dimensions of this dildo from Shevibe and realized that in my vagina's current state of not having much penetrative sex, this was not gonna be the dildo for me. Too girthy, too textured! I find myself sometimes writing cheques my body can't cash and this was one of those… View More

Yesterday I got tested at Planned Parenthood for STIs - I had a condom break and better safe than sorry. All in all it was a positive experience, and I'm glad to have a… View More

I went to the Curvy Girl Lingerie Show this weekend with… View More

Every summer is a constant battle between wanting to feel comfortable in the clothes I'm wearing and not die… View More

I tend to go for toys that are a lot bigger than I can actually use. This is a constant issue for me, as I now own several Outlaw dildos, which I love the IDEA of but not actually using them. Well, ok. At least,… View More

What can I say, I'm a sucker for giveaways, and with summer on the way, what better than two vibes perfect for traveling? They're both super sweet, just too buzzy for my tastes- my loss is your gain (and don't worry, I used the tip of my nose to test, they're perfectly… View More

I am totally into subscription boxes right now, and as I have been terrible about updating my #femmefridays I hope you'll… View More

Crossposted from Consent Culture to try to relieve the traffic! *** Elliot… View More