Trigger warning: frank discussion of suicide Ok. I've been sitting on these feelings for a long time, and some of my dear readers have probably heard me rant about this in person, but I have a bone to pick with some… View More

UPDATE: We do have a new campaign set… View More

It's SO hot in the South Bay right now. I mean, I've always thought of it as my personal hell, but DAMN. And it's only going to get worse!! Putting on makeup in the heat is like a maddening experiment in futility, because… View More

I can appreciate as much as the next person how awesome it would be to see more safer sex in porn. I think it's… View More

I keep coming across posts that wax poetic about the good old days before we were all staring at computer screens. They’re mostly people my age, maybe a bit older, so we’re not that… View More

Note: I talk in here about HIV/AIDs as it pertains mostly to white gay men, and white straight people. There's a lot more to be said on the topic of STIs pertaining to people of colour, particularly African… View More

Being a sex worker often means that a dehabilitating illness can put you out of operation for an unknown amount of time. This loss of stability can… View More

It's been a reaaaaally long time since I tried to write a poem. And honestly? Rhyming isn't my strong suit. But I wanted to write a response in the same style as the original work to critique… View More

I'm always looking for the best and the brightest in the sex toy world, and with spring turning into summer, what could be… View More

I'm a glitter fiend. If you were seeking out a way to summon me, you would probably draw a pentagram on the ground in multicloured glitter. It's probably good… View More