Project Unbreakable is an amazing project on Tumblr I've just… View More
January 2012
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One of the things I keep hearing about abuse in the BDSM community is "oh, but that doesn't happen HERE". "I've never had something like that happen to me," some scoff, "so it must be something you're doing", or "I've never heard of that happening here". In each case, I have often had stories from people in those communities, unsure how to speak up or what to say locally, but feeling safe to discuss it with someone who will respect their… View More
I was in San Francisco picking up nothing more exciting than a bag filled with a My Little Pony themed scarf I'm knitting for the boy when I figured I'd pop by the SSEX BBOX premiere. Held… View More
Introduction: Safe/Ward is getting to be rather a massive project, with a lot of posts, so if you're so inclined, please check out the other posts in the series: -I Never… View More
So I just dropped the boy off… View More
So January 18th is the Great Blackout, when sites all over will do everything from displaying a banner to blacking out their sites in protest of the Stop Internet Piracy Act and the Protect IP Act, a pair of proposed bills that will… View More
I'm no size queen- I like average sized cocks, on the thick side, not too long. 5 1/2-7" is just about perfect for me, personally. My cervix doesn't like being battered down, after all, and thick is more important than long in my… View More
I get asked in person all the time for advice relating to sex, gender, sex work, kink, consent... basically alternative sexuality. There's not a lot of good information for a pervert traversing the world of social mores on the sexier… View More
I love the Raygun Gothic Rocketship, and I am super proud that I got to rivet bits of it together. Theres something about the shiny chrome beauty of it, the way it's so retrofuturistic… View More
Desi, from my Candid Pornography post, has… View More
Part of a series discussing mostly whorephobia but also slut-shaming generally: Part… View More
"Don't feed the trolls". I get told this a lot. Don't argue with trolls, Kitty, don't keep fighting with… View More
(Update: Desiscandids is no longer live on Tumblr, and the blog is against the blogger content policy- they forbid blogs that only exist to make money off adult content...… View More
My 28th birthday was this last weekend, and it was fabulous! We had a meeting of the… View More
It was months ago that I got the Betty harness and I was so excited about it. But when I tried it on... it… View More
So there's an article about how being thin isn't a… View More
I am a femme who likes to be prepared. That said, I've been going a little overboard with that- my laptop bag currently has, among the books on spotting predators, a set… View More
Glass toys are quickly becoming a thing for me, mainly because they're just so elegant and pretty, sometimes transparent, sometimes opalescent, always smooth and stylish. The Icicles collection has some lovely pieces- I… View More
Body hair is one of those things that I don't really understand people disliking. I mean, I understand how shaving or… View More
A nicely curved cock is a good thing to have around. I have a lot of dildos around, but most of them have straight shafts, so when I saw the Wilde G1 at SheVibe, I knew I wanted to give it a go!… View More
Today has been a day of relaxing, spending time with my girlfriend and her kids, reading a story to my boyfriend and having… View More