I always love NYE as a chance to reflect on my last year, and what I want for the next year- I think rather than mash this year with my hopes for next year, there'll be two posts, one to say goodbye to 2011, one to say hello to… View More

So in March, I'm going to be speaking at two different conferences, a scary proposition but an exciting one! I'm honoured and thrilled to be speaking at both SXSW and Momentum, particularly as an out sex worker. I've been working… View More

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I haven't posted for a few days thanks to the holiday madness- madness that somehow increases even though I don't have any family members around for Christmas, and haven't for years. Maybe that's why- instead of one big family… View More

Aslan Leather makes some beautiful harnesses, like the… View More

So I've been aware for a while about how the SF area, while declaring themselves to be sex positive, absolutely resent being told that their party themes reflect their privilege. The "Pimps and Hos" party at one space was a good… View More

I am auctioning off 3 holiday-themed signed prints of myself-… View More

Inspired by the inimitable Lori from Rarely Wears Lipstick, I thought about having a "top ten… View More

I love meeting new people via social media. I like the way that the internet connects me with tons of folks from all walks of… View More

I have an interview with the gorgeous, totally crushable Maxine Holloway up… View More

I've been watching TV a bit while blogging (usually CSI, actually) and I normally don't pay a whole lot of attention. I just like background noise. But recently, I've been fascinated by a particular ad- TV ads for Trojan's Twister vibrator, which has aired both during the school day and late at night. Here's the ad: Now, I've seen an… View More

I've been such a nice girl in all the naughtiest ways this year, so Crystal Delights let me choose something from their site. For the holidays, I just had to pick the… View More

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Good Vibrations has put together some fabulous gift guides for some last minute shopping: I'm going to give you a few highlights from each! From the Green Sex Gift… View More

This weekend is December 17th, the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. It's… View More

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Image from Gawker's article on gendered… View More

I woke up this morning feeling a little under the weather. Burned out, you might say, on holiday events, balancing a new job with the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers, which I'm stage managing. As much as I love… View More

I've enjoyed Courtney Trouble's work for years, from way back in the beginnings of NoFauxxx.com, so when I heard she was looking for people to review her newest video, "Live Sex Show" (keep… View More

16 by SlevinAaron Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and… View More

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So there's this thing that's been quietly passing along from blog to blog, called the Versatile Blogger Award. Being awarded one by the lovely Pandora Blake (whose spanking/politics… View More

I did an interview earlier this week on the impact the policing of sex has on sex work and people with disabilities for the excellent London-based group Mutiny. They did an event as a part of their series, "_____ on Trial", which in this case was Sex on Trial, something I was… View More

Seattle's Babeland twitter account said a few days back that they had a toy stronger than the… View More

You know that phrase "sex is like pizza, even bad pizza is pizza"? It's not true. Sorry. Or if you think it is, you need to remember that sometimes… View More

I have a cat tail with a wooden base I got for Christmas a couple of years back and I adore it. But I was kind of ready for a tail that had a different, slightly… View More

It's incredibly important to give year round, since people don't JUST… View More

I'm not crazy about complicated bondage if I have to strap and buckle and tie- not because putting someone *into* it isn't fun, but I know getting them *out* is going to take forever, and the equipment can be heavy and tedious. Give… View More