July 2011

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Review: Body Chocolate

With the boy in London and me here in SF, I wasn't sure when and why I would have the opportunity to try… View More

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Safe/Ward: A "What You Can Do" Guide for Community Leaders

The Consent Culture Logo, by Tom… View More

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Review: The Captain

So after the First Mate, I wanted to get my hands on the next big thing- the… View More

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Safe/Ward Blog Carnival (trigger warning)

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Review: First Mate dildo

So ahoy there! This is one out of two nautical themed dildoes that I picked up… View More

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the queen of the swingers

(photos by the talented and lovely Benjy Feen) I've been in… View More

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Call for Writers: Women who have Bought Sex Work

So a couple of lovely friends of mine out in the UK are… View More

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Review: "The Rocki Whore Picture Show"

Oh my god. This porn parody has skyrocketed to one of my favourites ever. For many… View More

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Safe/Ward: A "What You Can Do" Guide for Community Members

"So Kitty," you might say while reading some of my recent blog posts on abuse and rape culture in BDSM, and feeling kind of depressed at some… View More

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Giveaway: You're Such a DIVA

(this contest has now ended! The winner is Heidi!… View More

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Safe/Ward: I wish I could use a safeword on rape culture.

(Note: This post may be triggering, and contains victim blaming references, as well as a lot of Fetlife posts. Sorry to those without a Fetlife account! I have a screencap of the blog post referenced I can send your way if you want to… View More

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Review: Ultimate Blindfold

I love sensory deprivation, both giving and receiving. I often close my eyes during sex, and have to… View More

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good morning CrashPad!

Saturday I woke up bright and early, had a complete breakfast and a nice cup of coffee, and dressed up nice. It was a foggy morning and I was off to shoot some porn for the… View More

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Review: The Understudy kit

With the boy and I having to spend extended periods of time away from each other, he… View More

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Safe/Ward: I never called it rape.

(Note: while I'm speaking here about M/f situations, as that's where I was at the time, that's not at all to say that men or Dominant women don't also suffer sexual and domestic violence along with victim silencing in… View More

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Review: Rainbow Amor Dildo

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Review: Carnal Machines

I have loved steampunk as soon as I came across it. Yeah, ok, it's basically Goth in brown leather, but the Victorian aesthetic mixed with a sci-fi twist is basically all sorts of awesome in one. But for me, steampunk had always… View More

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post-playa thoughts

I went to the desert this last weekend, the same desert that Burning Man happens at. I'm a huge fan of many of the… View More