November 2011

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Review: Remote Pleasure Panty Brief

Remote controlled toys can be fun, as I learned with my first one- a vibrator that went off every time a mobile phone around me got a message or a call, which I got as a present… View More

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First Dates and Expectations

I was reading a thread on that… View More

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Review: Mango Vanilla

Mmm. I smell like a delicious dessert, thanks to giving the Mango Vanilla massage candle a go this afternoon.… View More

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Filament is Dead, Long Live Filament

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sleeping alone

I have been waking up in my bed alone for what feels like forever. In reality, it's been 6 months, with a short 2 week respite in the end, and… View More

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Oooh, new pretty toy alert!

I've just come across the toys over at Va Va Voom, thanks to a giveaway that they're doing. These look really… View More

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the most wonderful time of the year!

I love Christmas. I'm a sucker for all of it- the sparkly ornaments, the candy canes, mince pies and pine needles (and the mince pies with pine sugar on top, omg!). I'm even one of those demon children who enjoys Christmas… View More

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Mutiny! Sex on Trial

So I will be giving a Skype interview about sex and disability at this special edition of Mutiny- if you're in the UK, you'll want to check this out, because it's going to be epic. EPIC. And it's cheap! I love critical sexology, it kept my brain alert and happy and the people from there and Mutiny both are smart and sexy. Check it out! **********************************Mutiny… View More

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Review and Giveaway: Rodeoh Harness (winner: chey!)

Yeeehaw! You know I had to do that. ::ahems:: I really loved the idea of the Rodeoh harness when I first came across it. To have butch,… View More

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serviced

I have a really tough time accepting service. I mean, I kink hard for it (I have a fantasy where I have a ladies' valet who can serve tea, pack a bag for me and give me Jeeves style advice) and I used to be a service submissive… View More

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Review: Kink Academy

There's tons of sites out there that offer erotic content, where you can see people engaging in all sorts of kinks, fetishes, and… View More

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Review: Baconlube

Ok, ok, I know. The bacon thing is out of control. It's some crazy hipsterized meat candy meme now, and everyone's hopping on it. I get it. But I have liked bacon all along- it's never been uncool, bacon, because it's… View More

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Destress Your Holiday with Good Vibes

Everyone wants sex toys for the holidays, right? If not as presents, as ways to get through the stress-inducing madness of crowded stores, cranky drivers and, of course, avoiding "Little Drummer Boy". After… View More

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Get Stuffed! Holidays and the Politics of Body Image

Thanksgiving is tomorrow, with its… View More

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Review: Cherry Minx harness

Strap on harnesses are a thing of mine, but I've had a really hard time finding one that's both femme and… View More

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Review: Best Bondage Erotica 2012

I'm a big reader of all sorts of smut, but often feel disappointed that so many books about kink have male dominants and female submissives. I mean, yay, glad that works out for… View More

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Lighting Candles at Oakland's TDoR

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fuck this scarlet letter bullshit part 3: life outside of Hookerdom

Part of a series discussing whorephobia: Part 1,… View More

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Checking In: Thoughts?

Create your free online surveys with SurveyMonkey, the world's leading questionnaire… View More

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Trans Day of Remembrance

November 20th is the Transgender Day of Remembrance, a day that was started twelve years ago to honor the memory of Rita Hester, a Black trans woman who was stabbed to death in Massachusetts. Tonight there will be an event in the… View More

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what is it about butches...

So a while back I had an experiment in butchness. Not just silly male drag, like you see in this image of me as a gym teacher (working out… View More

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Guest Review: The Art of Sensual Touch

As I'm a Bay Area based girl with a lot of ties/readers/tied up readers in the UK, I thought it might be a good idea to start letting some guests post about UK events/workshops that are of interest! This is a review by Penelope Star of a workshop she attended. It was offered by Bristol-based Pomegranate Boutique, a lovely women-focused, environmentally aware… View More

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"kids for sale"

Did you… View More

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Santa's Helper!

So every holiday I participate in a group called Holiday Wishes, where people grant other people's wishes, from small to pipe… View More

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cheating is the responsibility of the cheater

I was poking around in the blogs over at the Good Men Project when I found an article entitled "My Father Made Me Want to Cheat on My… View More

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I just wanna brag for a moment

I'm really happy to let you all know that I won TWO awards in the People's Choice Awards for Real Sex Toy… View More

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Review: Our Love is Real

Wow. Just... wow. My boy sent me a link to a preview of this fascinating comic called "Our Love is… View More

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The Road to Shameless: This Tuesday

So with all the various things going on around abuse, survivors and giving people a voice, I wanted to give a shout out to Bawdy Storytelling and Stories 2 Stop Rape as… View More

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Your Sensual Personal Shopper

I'm often asked by friends if I have a recommendation… View More

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Safe/Ward: Boston notes

So while I was ramping up to visit my parents and boy in Massachusetts, I got an email from a member of the… View More

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Review: L'Intimate

So if you've read reviews on my blog for any length of time you know that I really love reviewing toys that are kind of offbeat and different, whether that be the nature of their design, something clever they do, or how one uses… View More

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Via Feminisn't: the cranky ho's venn diagram of clients

As much as Furrygirl drives me crazy sometimes, I do like… View More

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Guest Post: Sex-Negative Actions in Sex-Positive Communities

The Consent Culture Logo,by Tom Ker-Oldfield Introduction: Safe/Ward is… View More

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Mistakes were made: so your silicone toy now smells

I'm going to start doing some blog posts that'll be about troubleshooting when things go wrong in the sexy sphere, and I'm going to start calling them "mistakes were made". Have you had an issue you need solved? Send me an email at… View More

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going the distance

I haven’t blogged for the last couple of weeks because I’ve been in Boston visiting my boy and my parents. Obviously,… View More

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Review: Women in Lust

I read a lot of erotica, and I have no shame about where or when I'll pull a book of smut out- there's erotic anthologies in my bathroom, by my bedside, in my purse, in the car. They usually… View More