(trigger warning for discussion/personal stories of nonconsent/abuse/rape) While I've been working on… View More

Just in time for Valentine's Day, I figured I'd give a review to the Beginner Bondage Kit sent to me by MyPleasure!… View More

I wanted to maybe encourage other people, Dominants particularly, to speak up for the Blog Carnival with a story of my own. It's a… View More

My boy has a very pretty cock. I don't like very many cocks, ok, so when I say I like his, it's a pretty high compliment. It's the… View More

There is a brilliant article up… View More

So after a discussion on Twitter between Consent Culture activist Maggie and a guy who goes by @crash_restraint, wherein he ended up harassing Maggie about consent culture and what we… View More

This was put up on my wall, described thus- "in view of recent chat about safe words and consent, thought you may find this interesting Kitty? (not work safe) Award winning 7 min film tackles consent, safe words, feminist ideas and… View More

Project Unbreakable is an amazing project on Tumblr I've just… View More

One of the things I keep hearing about abuse in the BDSM community is "oh, but that doesn't happen HERE". "I've never had something like that happen to me," some scoff, "so it must be something you're doing", or "I've never heard of that happening here". In each case, I have often had stories from people in those communities, unsure how to speak up or what to say locally, but feeling safe to discuss it with someone who will respect their… View More

I was in San Francisco picking up nothing more exciting than a bag filled with a My Little Pony themed scarf I'm knitting for the boy when I figured I'd pop by the SSEX BBOX premiere. Held… View More