"Man Will Pay Good Money for Thin, White Girlfriend" headlines stated when they were being kind(ish), while other news outlets dubbed him "the worst person in the world" and "a… View More

  So. So I've been quiet for 10 months about naming my abusive ex (Michael… View More

I had expected that going to London was going to be somewhat difficult. It had been years since I last visited, after all, and when I… View More

So due to being a bit ill with a norovirus, I turned to my partner to do a review of his very own of the Aneros Eupho Syn,… View More

So there's a club in San Francisco I have always had a soft spot for. It was dark, and a bit grungy, and the floor always felt stickier than it should beneath my heels. There… View More

So, let's see. The government's hunting Snowden for telling us even a bit about how much they're spying on us. Microsoft adds to their list of fuckups with the Xbox One by using rape jokes to sell it. Trans* women are… View More

"Adverts for their products appeared next to a group captioned “I like her for her brains” below a woman lying with a pool of blood around her head, and another titled “Violently Raping Your Friend Just for Laughs”."  -Pinterest: nudity welcome, Matt… View More

So, I saw on Tumblr this awesome post by Pervocracy about what sex positive means to them. I really love and agree with their post, and it made me consider my critique of "sex positive" as a catch-all term and why I tend to not identify with it generally (though probably would if Pervocracy's definition was more widespread). I'm also… View More

Trigger Warning: This discusses abuse, why someone would stay in an abusive situation, self-blame, loss of friends. It's part of a series about losing… View More

I've been turning this over in my head for a while, so these are just some thoughts, really, but with "why you need to date a crazy girl" going Kinky & Popular on Fetlife, and as a woman who thought being… View More