(Update: Desiscandids is no longer live on Tumblr, and the blog is against the blogger content policy- they forbid blogs that only exist to make money off adult content...… View More

My 28th birthday was this last weekend, and it was fabulous! We had a meeting of the… View More

It was months ago that I got the Betty harness and I was so excited about it. But when I tried it on... it… View More

So there's an article about how being thin isn't a… View More

I am a femme who likes to be prepared. That said, I've been going a little overboard with that- my laptop bag currently has, among the books on spotting predators, a set… View More

Glass toys are quickly becoming a thing for me, mainly because they're just so elegant and pretty, sometimes transparent, sometimes opalescent, always smooth and stylish. The Icicles collection has some lovely pieces- I… View More

Body hair is one of those things that I don't really understand people disliking. I mean, I understand how shaving or… View More

A nicely curved cock is a good thing to have around. I have a lot of dildos around, but most of them have straight shafts, so when I saw the Wilde G1 at SheVibe, I knew I wanted to give it a go!… View More

Today has been a day of relaxing, spending time with my girlfriend and her kids, reading a story to my boyfriend and having… View More

I always love NYE as a chance to reflect on my last year, and what I want for the next year- I think rather than mash this year with my hopes for next year, there'll be two posts, one to say goodbye to 2011, one to say hello to… View More