So in March, I'm going to be speaking at two different conferences, a scary proposition but an exciting one! I'm honoured and thrilled to be speaking at both SXSW and Momentum, particularly as an out sex worker. I've been working… View More

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I haven't posted for a few days thanks to the holiday madness- madness that somehow increases even though I don't have any family members around for Christmas, and haven't for years. Maybe that's why- instead of one big family… View More

Aslan Leather makes some beautiful harnesses, like the… View More

So I've been aware for a while about how the SF area, while declaring themselves to be sex positive, absolutely resent being told that their party themes reflect their privilege. The "Pimps and Hos" party at one space was a good… View More

I am auctioning off 3 holiday-themed signed prints of myself-… View More

Inspired by the inimitable Lori from Rarely Wears Lipstick, I thought about having a "top ten… View More

I love meeting new people via social media. I like the way that the internet connects me with tons of folks from all walks of… View More

I have an interview with the gorgeous, totally crushable Maxine Holloway up… View More

I've been watching TV a bit while blogging (usually CSI, actually) and I normally don't pay a whole lot of attention. I just like background noise. But recently, I've been fascinated by a particular ad- TV ads for Trojan's Twister vibrator, which has aired both during the school day and late at night. Here's the ad: Now, I've seen an… View More