My girlfriend has genital herpes. I've done the research, and am comfortable pursuing the relationship. But we could use some real-world insight into making F/F safer sex more sexy. Eating her out through a dental dam is a disappointment to both of… View More
April 2011
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A while back I did a survey which included a couple of things- what sort of things would people like to see on my blog, and what sort of things people wanted me to teach. One thing that's come up a… View More
(Congrats Hadespark, who has won!) Spring has most definitely sprung. Can you feel it? I can- the blood is warming, flirtation is everywhere, the trees and flowers are exploding… View More
I'm sad that I won't be around to make it to Slutwalk London, but I was really surprised to see some of the responses on the wall for… View More
So the boy is a huge fan of Batman.… View More
So I said in passing that I wanted to be able to shock some sense into the straight boys I… View More
I was up watching "The Sex Education Show" last… View More
With the "Sex Education Show" forthing at the mouth on the sexualization of children (by which we almost always mean girls), I wanted to talk a bit about underwear. The show rants at length about… View More
So earlier this year I curated the… View More
I had a dream last night. It had zombies in it (not surprising, as I had watched "The Walking Dead" last night) but… View More
Well, I spent three nights up in Edinburgh. I had hoped to get some work while I was up… View More
As I've said previously in my blog,… View More
I'm typing this while sipping tea in First Class on a train to Edinburgh. I'm looking forward to a nice jaunt away from London for a few days, though am also a bit nervous that I'll… View More
Coffee Cake and Kink was the first kinky space I felt really comfortable in, probably because it wasn't a fetish club or a munch, but rather just a space where I could talk freely and know I was among fellow perverts like myself. It also made me really happy that it was so central, and that it was respectable enough to bring vanilla friends while also being a non-alcoholic place to meet up with a potential play… View More
In other, briefer but very exciting news... I'm one of three nominees for Female Sex Worker of the Year for the… View More
Photo from… View More
So after being really uncomfortable about last… View More
On my way home from the tube tonight I was assaulted. I'm ok, calmed down,… View More
So I'm up in Sex Shop 365's Adult Bog Awards- kind of awesome! I've been running this blog now since 2008, and this is the first contest I've been entered into. Squee! The more notice I get on this blog, the better situated I am to run classes, write books, and do documentaries- stuff I find important, since in the UK sex worker voices are silenced, particularly if they're also feminist, queer voices. Help me have a… View More
I've been asked before what it's like having a… View More
If you're female-identified and in… View More
I wrote earlier this week about my anger around this… View More
Ok, I'm going to warn you. This is a rant, an exploration, possibly an epiphany. Now that you've been warned, I shall begin. Today I… View More
I watched as my twitter feed filled with anxiety on April Fool's Day- someone had… View More