Well, before anything else, let me introduce... squidkittenbaconparty! My new etsy shop with the silly hats and maybe (post BM) other random clothes and crafts I'm sewing up. Yay! I'm even hearted by three people. Granted, one of them has to love me. :) As anyone within a mile of me knows, I'm getting ready to leave for… View More

I have a confession to make. I let Hysteria walk. She was gorgeous, and young, and interested in things that are just *wrong* and I thought somehow we could make that… View More

Ohai. I'm not dead. Really. I've just been crazy busy getting ready for That Thing… View More

t's been 2 months, maybe a little longer, since I last had sex for money. And in that time, I've had sex twice, I think. Finding dominatrix work out here has been a struggle, between not having an incall and being virtually unknown here anymore. Never mind that most of the clients I speak to treat me like a wank rag, not a woman. Not interested in that sort of session. It's funny, in a way, but I almost miss my job.… View More

I’m sitting here in my grandmother’s Berkeley house, up in the hills, surrounded by elderly people and the wealthy, overlooking San Francisco and the Golden Gate bridge. I’m watching a documentary on hippies, and the revolt against reason, logic, monotheistic religions. I’m fascinated by the journey hippies went through, from pot and LSD to speed and heroin, from a lack of religion to a tendency to follow a guru, a cult leader, or… View More

I was reading Calico's older blog about coming out into the scene, and figuring out who you are, and what you're into, along with thinking about if kink is a sexual orientation or not. I get asked that a lot at work.… View More

You laugh, but I feel, sometimes, like I need to update this as much for my own benefit as to explain these nicknames to you all. As per usual- Victorian ailments take preference. Here we go… View More

The question “what is feminism” was brought up on one of the forums I’m on, a kinky one, and it led me to think a lot about my position on feminism, but more my thoughts on men and masculine identity, something I rarely think about as a femme. I would say I identify as a feminist. How can I not, being a woman who would prefer to live her life without worrying that her sex or gender will cause her to be at risk… View More

I am a sucker, a true sucker, for snazzily dressed men with vintage taste. And I'm obviously not the… View More

I was just at Cirque X giving out spankings this weekend, partying with the St James… View More