I was on the forums, a place of infinite frustration and annoyance to me sometimes, when I came across that old favourite- "poly people should try to move beyond jealousy". Oh for christ's sake. Ok, I get it- jealousy stems from a bit of "fear of missing out", or FOMA, a bit of hurt and maybe competitiveness, and a lot of insecurity. And sure, it's good to think about your insecurity, and challenge it, and double check that it comes from a… View More

I wish I was musically inclined. I would… View More

So I always knew I had a G-spot. Ok, that's not exactly true. I always knew it felt really, really nice to stick my fingers in my cunt and… View More

I've had a long struggle with polyamory. I love the idea of it. I want to be up for it. I've done it, happily, before, but never as the primary. I was always Girl #2, the unicorn in the closet for when a couple wanted sexyfuntimes. And it wasn't a bad… View More

When I tell people I'm a happy, out, queer sex worker, they think I'm… View More

Holidays are stressful times. All… View More

My fingertips, almost every single one, are either bleeding or have scabs. I have been so anxious for the last week that I've had to repaint my nails 4 times, and try as I might to keep myself from biting my cuticles, it hasn't… View More

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I'm quite possibly crazy. It's been suggested I have lots of things-… View More