Usually when I get sex toys to test, I get ones that the store already carries- but once in a while I get to preview something the shop hasn't trotted out yet. Such was the case with the two glass butt plugs I got to review from Blowfish- I found… View More

Almost every time I see a client who is into kink, they immediately begin the session with an apology. "I know this must seem weird..." "It's ok if you're not into… View More

I'm a big fan of safer sex, and love to experiment with different condoms, gloves, and lubricants.… View More

Today is International Women's Day. As a privileged international woman myself, in a way (a Californian living in London), today is humbling. I'm incredibly aware that I am lucky enough and have enough agency that I can make… View More

Every time I leave London I have to leave the nest I've made into "home" for the trip. Giving up my last place was the hardest I've dealt with in a while, as it had been  my home for a long time- the longest time I stayed in one… View More

So I've done a little bit of lecturing and workshopping, mostly on enforced feminization in female sex work and porn consumption. And I've been asked if I wanted to run classes and workshops in other venues. But I'm not entirely sure what people would want to explore, and I'm not entirely sure how to go about it- should I try for a sex toy shop? Should I do it privately? Small groups or larger? General public or just friends? In… View More

Novelty vibrators are kind of a favourite of mine- having already reviewed the… View More

Miss Penny Barber, AB/DL afictionado,… View More

I love Half Naked Thursday though I'm almost never organized… View More

The boy and I are trying a new experiment into the world of ageplay- daily discipline. He's kind of temperamental,… View More