Coffee Cake and Kink was the first kinky space I felt really comfortable in, probably because it wasn't a fetish club or a munch, but rather just a space where I could talk freely and know I was among fellow perverts like myself. It also made me really happy that it was so central, and that it was respectable enough to bring vanilla friends while also being a non-alcoholic place to meet up with a potential play… View More

In other, briefer but very exciting news... I'm one of three nominees for Female Sex Worker of the Year for the… View More

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So after being really uncomfortable about last… View More

On my way home from the tube tonight I was assaulted. I'm ok, calmed down,… View More

So I'm up in Sex Shop 365's Adult Bog Awards- kind of awesome! I've been running this blog now since 2008, and this is the first contest I've been entered into. Squee! The more notice I get on this blog, the better situated I am to run classes, write books, and do documentaries- stuff I find important, since in the UK sex worker voices are silenced, particularly if they're also feminist, queer voices. Help me have a… View More

I've been asked before what it's like having a… View More

If you're female-identified and in… View More

I wrote earlier this week about my anger around this… View More

Ok, I'm going to warn you. This is a rant, an exploration, possibly an epiphany. Now that you've been warned, I shall begin. Today I… View More