I got this paddle a… View More

So the boy and I went away for a little relaxing trip to celebrate being together- we got a lovely hotel with a… View More

I was lucky enough today to sit at a table in Oakland with brilliant bloggers maymay and Clarisse Thorn, both people I admire and respect hugely. We talked about a lot of things,… View More

There's been a crazy trend in all sorts of sex furniture, and for the most part I've stayed away- I haven't been… View More

Every time I travel I just have to laugh at the stuff I consider necessary. The boy and I have, of course, lots of… View More

In three days, by this time, I'll be at the airport with my bags and my boy, ready to fly back to the UK. I'm happy to go back, but the feeling is bittersweet. I don't know after this trip when I'll be back, and if I'll be back. It's hard to say. KSL is running very successfully without me (which is great but makes me feel I don't have a place with it anymore), it's been difficult to maintain… View More

I was just reading a post in a blog I occasionally glance over, "Ramblings of a Kajira". I'll freely admit, I am both fascinated and a little wary of Gorean dynamics, but am generally pretty happy to live and let live. An… View More

So with Valentine's Day fast approaching there's loads of half-acceptable candy being pushed in the shops, hearts shaped boxes that look like footballs, and cards ranging from sickeningly sweet to disgustingly tender. Ugh. Not everyone is interested in "romance" as peddled by the folks at Hallmark. If you're nodding at that, then this guide is for you, and the ones you want to reward on this corporate holiday for putting up… View More

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I'm always interested in vibrators that can be useful for people who have a disability,… View More