Christmas! I love Christmas. And it seems somehow fitting that my 300th post would be one in which I discuss how my holiday went. First, the boy and I went to… View More

I love the holidays. I love them so much, I do a yearly holiday shoot- this is the third year running, in fact!  I try to do something… View More

Ok, so, I need to split these into two categories- toys/lubes from Babeland I like the look/idea of, and toys I've been introduced to this year. Because there's quite a few that I've had to go "oooo" over! First, how about 3 toys I'm excited… View More

So I've never participated in these online Twitter or blog memes of Wanton Wednesday or TMI Tuesday. But why not start now with Half Naked Thursday, especially as I'm half naked a lot of the time? So, without further ado, here goes- feedback welcome.… View More

I was just reading an article by the lovely… View More

I'm not the biggest hippie in the world, but this is probably one of the niftiest ideas I've seen- a bullet vibe that's solar powered, from Babeland. It's funny,… View More

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You know about this tradition, right? The hanging of stockings, decorating the Christmas tree, lighting the menorah, baking holiday cookies, asking the holiday vulva for sex toy advice. Wait, what? Yes, Babeland now has a Holiday Vulva available to give you recommendations for your bedroom antics! I imagine I'd ask the Holiday Vulva what do you get the girl who has a library of sexuality books and a toybox of toys? What's something… View More

I know a girl- a hot, genderfucking dandy of a girl- who lives up in the cold northern… View More

I was on the forums, a place of infinite frustration and annoyance to me sometimes, when I came across that old favourite- "poly people should try to move beyond jealousy". Oh for christ's sake. Ok, I get it- jealousy stems from a bit of "fear of missing out", or FOMA, a bit of hurt and maybe competitiveness, and a lot of insecurity. And sure, it's good to think about your insecurity, and challenge it, and double check that it comes from a… View More

I wish I was musically inclined. I would… View More

So I always knew I had a G-spot. Ok, that's not exactly true. I always knew it felt really, really nice to stick my fingers in my cunt and… View More

I've had a long struggle with polyamory. I love the idea of it. I want to be up for it. I've done it, happily, before, but never as the primary. I was always Girl #2, the unicorn in the closet for when a couple wanted sexyfuntimes. And it wasn't a bad… View More

When I tell people I'm a happy, out, queer sex worker, they think I'm… View More

Holidays are stressful times. All… View More

My fingertips, almost every single one, are either bleeding or have scabs. I have been so anxious for the last week that I've had to repaint my nails 4 times, and try as I might to keep myself from biting my cuticles, it hasn't… View More

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