So I've done a little bit of lecturing and workshopping, mostly on enforced feminization in female sex work and porn consumption. And I've been asked if I wanted to run classes and workshops in other venues. But I'm not entirely sure what people would want to explore, and I'm not entirely sure how to go about it- should I try for a sex toy shop? Should I do it privately? Small groups or larger? General public or just friends? In… View More

Novelty vibrators are kind of a favourite of mine- having already reviewed the… View More

Miss Penny Barber, AB/DL afictionado,… View More

I love Half Naked Thursday though I'm almost never organized… View More

The boy and I are trying a new experiment into the world of ageplay- daily discipline. He's kind of temperamental,… View More

I was given this film to review last year, and hated it so much for so many reasons that I wrote the company to ask if they even wanted me to review it on my blog because I was going to slag it off so severely. They didn't respond, and I had better things to write, but I rediscovered this and thought I'd publish it as is, as the play-by-play commentary I had when I watched… View More

So today it's Lady Porn Day- a day created to start a discussion on women, masturbation and porn consumption, a conversation I'm pretty fond of and think about a lot… View More

Today I'm posting in honor of tomorrow's "Lady Porn… View More

So I've been back in the UK for almost 2 weeks now. It's been a bumpy ride, working on a couple of projects and even being crazy enough to start another one, along with doing an interview for a potential… View More

I am in love with the dandy aesthetic. In love. I adore that rakish type of person, whether male of female-… View More

The commercialization of romance is a tricky business, but a booming one- something we realize anew every Valentine's Day, with all the cynical tweeting and blog entries. I personally have… View More

So… View More

So I was just reading this article about a man with a low IQ who has been banned from having sexual relationships. And it makes me so… View More

So if it wasn't already obvious by posts in prior years about Valentine's Day or my… View More

I am many things, but I am definitely a… View More

I got this paddle a… View More

So the boy and I went away for a little relaxing trip to celebrate being together- we got a lovely hotel with a… View More

I was lucky enough today to sit at a table in Oakland with brilliant bloggers maymay and Clarisse Thorn, both people I admire and respect hugely. We talked about a lot of things,… View More

There's been a crazy trend in all sorts of sex furniture, and for the most part I've stayed away- I haven't been… View More

Every time I travel I just have to laugh at the stuff I consider necessary. The boy and I have, of course, lots of… View More