What can I say, I'm a sucker for giveaways, and with summer on the way, what better than two vibes perfect for traveling? They're both super sweet, just too buzzy for my tastes- my loss is your gain (and don't worry, I used the tip of my nose to test, they're perfectly… View More

I am totally into subscription boxes right now, and as I have been terrible about updating my #femmefridays I hope you'll… View More

Crossposted from Consent Culture to try to relieve the traffic! *** Elliot… View More

Trigger warning: frank discussion of suicide Ok. I've been sitting on these feelings for a long time, and some of my dear readers have probably heard me rant about this in person, but I have a bone to pick with some… View More

UPDATE: We do have a new campaign set… View More

It's SO hot in the South Bay right now. I mean, I've always thought of it as my personal hell, but DAMN. And it's only going to get worse!! Putting on makeup in the heat is like a maddening experiment in futility, because… View More

I can appreciate as much as the next person how awesome it would be to see more safer sex in porn. I think it's… View More

I keep coming across posts that wax poetic about the good old days before we were all staring at computer screens. They’re mostly people my age, maybe a bit older, so we’re not that… View More

Note: I talk in here about HIV/AIDs as it pertains mostly to white gay men, and white straight people. There's a lot more to be said on the topic of STIs pertaining to people of colour, particularly African… View More

Being a sex worker often means that a dehabilitating illness can put you out of operation for an unknown amount of time. This loss of stability can… View More