I've always struggled to respect Goreans as a variation of BDSM. I have multiple problems with it. -There's an implication that this is how the world "really" is, and if we all just stopped with the pretense and got down to it, we'd "know better". Uh huh.-Also, it doesn't help that most of the people interested are men- men who still haven't gotten rolling for stats, if you know… View More

Also, I wanted to do a response to a poem I found today: "Nothing is worse than sucking cock the vile taste of a dick in your mouthunwashed, dirty ‘n thrusting to the back of your throatlike it’s a normal thing to do… And if that’s not bad enough, they expect you toswallow their cum and enjoy the… View More

This is Sadie Lune. She wants a wife, sex worker rights, and possibly more hats to add to her collection. She's this very sexy poster girl for Proposition K, a move to… View More

This was a question posted on one of my favorite forums: has escorting changed you, personality-wise? Yes, I think it has. Mostly in good ways. Sexually: yes, I've changed. I've become more confident, better at saying "I like it when you do this" and "no, don't do that, try this way", and better at holding to my boundaries. I'm much better at saying no. I'm also better at saying when something is… View More

A brief post to say: I have been sickly, as I was diagnosed with the tonsillitis. Ick! However, I got meds, and I'm getting better, and my throat is almost 100% again. Hopefully, it'll be even better tomorrow.… View More

I don't know which of these I enjoy more- Disney Princesses or Cleaning, as they both made me laugh pretty hard. But what I like about these videos is because they're funny, they make some incredible points while being entertaining. I believe this is the way to changing people's minds- through… View More

Fuck the Swedish Model. By that, btw, I don't mean these delightful chickadees from First Time Tied, a Swedish Bondage site (though they are lovely,… View More

Looking back over my writing from the past 5 years I am astounded at some of the things I articulated. Some of them hold true, even now, though I'm no longer depressed enough to write poetry like I used to. There are snippets I can smile at, here and there, and I just think "oh, yes..." Things like "for I have no mercy to offer you ". It was like that two nights ago. I was tipsy, which is generally not the place where I start a… View More

Again and again I am amazed at how hard it must be to be a punter and admit your pervs to a complete stranger. I mean, in some ways, maybe it's way easier, because you never have to meet them and you never have to see their look of horror... but in other ways I feel flattered that people come to me to try stuff that they're worried will squick me out. Maybe if any of my readers are clients they could say something about how it feels to ask… View More

Passive-aggressive notes. I love to hate on them, and they often make me laugh. There was recently a post that had to do with brothels and… View More

disclaimer- I am a woman. I talk about my menses. If you have a problem with women's menses, well, you should probably go gay, because WTF, we have to smell your balls. ::ahem:: Dating Mr Primary, I ended up with this habit called "the sex towel". The sex towel is a lovely invention. Whenever I get fisted, or have my period, or just in case things get messy, we take out the sex towel. It's pink, covered in bits of hair… View More

I'm trying for find a flat for 3 months, November to February. I'd like it to be in zone 1-3. Double bed. Easy access to tube, or at least buses to central London. Warmish. Mixed gender or male. Under 600 quid a month, bills included. But this appears to be really difficult. :/ I'm getting concerned I won't be able to find a place, which would be a real problem. I mean, I need to have this sorted soonish! I guess it's a… View More

Ok, guys, look. I understand you want a Girlfriend Experience. I understand that you want to suspend disbelief for an hour or two when you come to see me. I even understand that you *want* me to cum during our session (though I do try to clarify with you that I'll be honest, and that may or may not happen). But one thing that is definitely Not Ok is for you to feel that you can then give me the Boyfriend Experience. You cannot skimp on… View More

There are little ways he turns me on more than anything. Like when we spent a good hour or so giggling at the most random things, like the creaking of the sign outside his flat, and as we wiped tears from our eyes I complained that now how would I get the fucking I wanted? and he said I could wake him up in the middle of the night. I could. I've even done it before. And he's happy to interrupt his sleep, to stroke me the way I… View More

Oh, San Francisco.Sometimes I'll see some photos of something awesome (like the Prim Queer Tea (where "modesty is the new kink!", in the middle of the… View More

First, I would like to show you guys a cute video... it's a group called Carrotmob and their way of promoting energy efficiency in local businesses. I'd embed it but that doesn't seem to work... Anyway. Watch it. It's one of those types of videos that makes you say "wow! So I can use my consumerism to actually affect change in the ways I… View More