As a child, growing up to pagan, feminist, socially aware parents, I remember hearing… View More

So it seems we haven't gotten over the happyfuntime that is blaming the victim, according to… View More

First, can I just say check my shit out- I'm blogging regularly again! I'd like to entirely blame the boy,… View More

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I'm on this kinky forum type thing. There's a mixture of people there, some professional, some not, and a few people have profiles that link their personal profile to the professional one, so they can maintain a personal account. I was told by the admin, after 5 years of being on the site, that because my personal profile links to this blog, which then, on the side, links to my professional page, I had to indicate on my personal… View More

I'm going to start today with this photo, which is meant to illustrate the body weight ideal women have for themselves, men have for women, and the national average. (if you're on the LJ feed, sorry, you have to go to the blog to see!) I also want to mention here… View More

In my efforts to get back into writing more consistently on this blog I was reading a friend's blog about the G-spot and the hymen, and how these "medical" constructs have been used to pressure and contain women. And of course, not long ago there was that article about how the G-spot… View More

I am a fat girl. I'm also a hot girl, a clever girl, a sweet girl, an evil girl, and many other things. But none of those other words seems to make people writhe uncomfortably in their seats as the word fat. But I *like* the word fat, actually. Fat implies fruitfulness, and richness. It's succinct. It allows me to take up space, and I don't apologize for it anymore- not to my family, not to my friends, certainly not to my… View More

So there's that new facebook meme going around, you know the… View More