So when I saw this toy for review at… View More

With the end of October, and therefore Breast Cancer Awareness month, fast approaching, I’ve been thinking long and hard about breast cancer. Not about the disease, specifically, but rather the phenomenon of breast cancer awareness, which, every… View More

I saw there was a needleplay demo discussing needles and scenes going on at local dungeon the Citadel. One of the presenters,… View More

I'm not sure where my desire to be the boy's little girl came from. It definitely sideswiped me. I had defended adult babies against judgmental sex workers online before, but didn't feel any connection to them- I always said I got to act like a kid often, in the Bay Area's whirl of costumes and parties, so why wear a romper suit? And as for the other side,… View More

So my first ageplay party did not go very well. Honestly, I had a shitty time. I felt resentful of the parental role, cranky to be in little girl space without someone to take care of me, bored, jealous of the boy being changed and having a good time when I wasn't... it was just kind of awful. I think I… View More

A friend of mine just posted about how, when you get to your mid-twenties or so, parents feel carte blanche to talk about or joke about their sexual proclivities, and how it's TMI and usually super uncomfortable. To each their own, certainly, but I must say that I am glad and thankful each and every day that my family is open to discussing sexuality,… View More

As the boy used to be vegan, and friends and sweeties of mine similarly prefer vegan, latex-safe,… View More

I can't really say there was a time relating to my sexuality that I was closeted. As I grew up, and expanded my interests, I felt pretty comfortable telling my friends and family where I was going- I came out as bisexual, then as kinky, then as poly, then as queer. I'm very lucky in that way. Even when I was in school, where being queer wasn't ok, I made it through without too much hassle. While I basically live my life under a stage name, I… View More

So while the boy was here I insisted we sit down and watch… View More

So on Tuesday I brought the boy to the airport. He was off to London again, while I had to stay here, still uncertain about… View More