Strap on harnesses are a thing of mine, but I've had a really hard time finding one that's both femme and comfortable on my body.

Being a fat girl means that harnesses often fit funny, cutting into my hips or the straps not being long enough (I recently had to turn down reviewing a harness because it didn't come in my size yet). I had resigned myself to butch harnesses that're often made more comfortable for big hips and round asses.

Until I came across Aslan Leather's Cherry Minx, that is, which is a beautiful polyfidelitous marriage of style, comfort and function! Yay! It's a gorgeous bright red colour, to start, and a buttery soft leather that feels amazing against my skin. I love leather- it's supple, it's warm, it moves with my body and it's form fitting. I've had leather harnesses before, but not like this- this feels like the softest suede without having the cleaning nightmares of suede. Perfect.

The O-ring is adjustable, which means you can switch it out to accommodate smaller or larger cocks than what it comes with, which is nice when, like me, you fuck size queens and nervous beginners alike. Also very cool is the inclusion of a double dildo cuff, making it possible to wear a butt plug or dildo inside yourself while you thrust into your lover. The cuff slides along the two straps that go between your legs to offer a bit of support for the end of the toy inside the wearer, making it streamlined and easy to use.

The back is corseted, and very sturdy, meaning you can tighten it without worry. I like that you can easily tighten it when it's on, which is nice and prevents straining to buckle it around the hips. I also like that this harness buckles, meaning that it is going to stay together no matter how hard you use it... always important! Mine adjusts from 30"-60" hips- sounds ridiculous, but I can believe it. I know it fits well around my 50" hips, at least!

I just got to wear this around the house, strutting in my petticoat, cock and harness (thank goodness Grandma wasn't home) but I can't wait to try it out on someone. It's a perfect hard femme harness- it looks tough and femme at the same time. It has d-rings in the back and rings in the front I can use to attach toys, which is cool. Basically, the Minx is my dream strap on harness.

Leather means that you have to clean it carefully, mind, so wipe it with a damp cloth and mild anti bacterial soap, and make sure it's dry before putting it away. You can also use a leather conditioner to keep it soft. Aslan's harnesses come with a lifetime guarantee for normal use, so if something breaks you can send it to them for repair or replacement. How sweet is that?

They also have the Minx in other colours and styles- I'm drooling over the silver and pink gem-encrusted Sophia St. James harness, personally!  If you're not into leather yourself, Aslan also makes some lovely vegan harnesses.

Thank you very much Aslan Leather for sending me the Cherry Minx in exchange for an honest review.